The Darwin chapter is so frustrating. When infidelity takes a seat in relationships, friends can be a wonderful...or, a hindering influence.
I have heard the sound of loathing, and I can't turn back. It snakes through my mind, pushing happiness aside. I know how it sounds to be hated. It has been a challenge to document the next part of my infidelity story. Even thinking about this part of my experience tightens my chest and sends... Continue Reading →
It's two days until the first anniversary of my second DD. My first one was more than 27 years ago. I didn't take note of the date. I'm staying busy. I'm in a good place. I saw my psychologist yesterday. It was great timing. He has given me good homework assignments, as always. I can't... Continue Reading →
An honest reflection of where I'm at as the first anniversary of discovering my husband's secret approaches.
I have my husband's support. It means the world to me to have his encouragement to share our journey from infidelity to repair and healing.
One day he was spending time with her on a daily basis -- and then he wasn't. I often wonder about how lonely he must have been when he stepped away from the third wheel. I have a hard time understanding how he went from spending time with her every day, to never spending time... Continue Reading →
This is the hell we put our kids through. Infidelity, the game changing behavior and its impact my adult children.
Gaining my bearings, I noticed there, beyond the snowy field, was the town home community I had been circling. The stark contrast of the field (that was too dark to see), touching the edge of the brightly lit neighborhood, created a new question I couldn't face alone... I quietly dialed 911. [Excerpt from Beyond The... Continue Reading →