My Heart

“We’ve already talked about this!”

A year plus into affair recovery, the husband tries to be patient but keeps slipping into the statement, "We’ve already talked about this! When will this be over??" I know this is not unique to us. Dear Unfaithful, If your bank account was cleaned out by identity theft, when would you stop signing into online... Continue Reading →

Riding the Wave of Triggers

Triggers...I've come to a place of acceptance. I can't prevent or halt a trigger that has arrived, but I've learned to embrace these moments. I have learned that my triggers and emotional flooding have a message for me. They have something for me to discover about myself , about the trauma of infidelity, and about... Continue Reading →

I Don’t Want This Stuff Anymore

My husband and I have made it through this past year of “marriage”, and are into our second year since D-Day.  We both work to process, heal, and grow from what has happened as a result of the trauma of infidelity.  We each have improved in different ways in this past year, and although not... Continue Reading →

Taking Time to Build New Memories

After learning about my husband's emotional affair, some long standing routines were very difficult to return to...and I'm finally figuring it out. Yay! for me! Yay! for us! "Experiencing and coping with loss is an unintended consequence of infidelity, even with the couples who have committed to repair their relationship. Life just doesn't fit together... Continue Reading →

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